Manifesting wealth is the goal of a great many people, which might be one of the most obvious statements ever made. The reason I’m bringing this obvious information up is because far too many folks don’t realize the true wealth and prosperity creation secret and I’d like to help you know what it is.

What could possibly be this missing secret that far too many people gloss over when it comes to their manifesting wealth efforts? During all their efforts, they don’t spend enough energy and time with improving their personal growth and development skills.

They sure learn lots of techniques and strategies for creating prosperity and wealth from all the books, dvd’s & home study courses they invest in. They can’t wait to get to the next wealth building seminar. They spend a lot of time investigating all the latest tricks and techniques on how to build network marketing businesses, invest in real estate or trade options, stocks and bonds.

But what ends up happening, however, when those dvd’s, books and seminars never end up with real wealth pouring in? They start thinking that all that massive amount of information was just a fraud and a scam.

What did they miss during this entire process? Did you catch it? They never thought seriously about how much they must grow during this process in order for all that awesome knowledge to begin paying off for them. Does any of this sound a bit familiar in regards to your own story?

What I want to get you thinking about is that if you’ve been an employee for the majority of your life, then before you can begin manifesting wealth, you’ve got to invest time manifesting new business and personal growth skill-sets.

Has your boss ever given you a course on how to move forward after taking rejection? Has your employer ever provided any training that business is all about “knowing the numbers” and how these numbers pertain to prospecting?

Before you can find the winners in something like real estate or network marketing, you must looks at a certain number of homes or talk to a set number of people. How much do you know about the percentages when it comes to how many people or homes will work out for you and how many won’t?

Being an employee mostly, how much do you honestly know about how to best buy advertising, the Law of Attraction or about the mental skills that lead to you becoming a better businessperson?

Are you starting to see how manifesting wealth in your life is going to hinge much more on how you think and who you are becoming than it is on that next outstanding real estate technique?

Let me leave you with one final piece of advice that has been instrumental in my own life. Go out, investigate, and then join up with a networking organization or group that provides its members with regular trainings and education on things like wealth creation, health, prospecting, personal growth, the Law of Attraction, and business/mental skills, etc.

It’s when you start improving in all of those areas that manifesting wealth will begin to happen for you.

Matt Zavadil is an expert trainer with the Global Information Network, an group dedicated to bringing its associates ongoing wealth building seminars and education. Find out what this group is and why joining may be the path for you by clicking this link: Global Information Network

A lot has been said and written about the so-called ‘Law of Attraction’. It has become well known through videos and bestselling books, like ‘The Secret’ and by television talk-show hosts such as Larry King. However, few people understand what this ‘attraction’ actually means. Does it mean that you can attract into your life the kind of good things that you crave? And, if so, how can you actually put the ‘Law of Attraction’ into action for your own benefit?

First of all, you must understand that the ‘Law of Attraction’ is working in your daily life as you read these words. This may come as news to you but what you need to understand is that the life you live is an exact mirror image of what is going on in your head. Unfortunately, much of what is going on in the normal person’s mind is doing them damage rather than good because, left to itself, the subconscious mind is both negative and focused in the past, constantly ‘enabling’ you – and that’s obviously the wrong word – to keep repeating all the learned reactions that are, right now, creating your reality. In other words, as a result of the normal mind being in turmoil, it follows that the normal life is also in turmoil.

It doesn’t matter if it or not, the ‘Law of Attraction’ is a reality in your life. I’m not sure, from reading some of the mountain of stuff – often misleading stuff – on the subject, that many will have fully grasped the extraordinary importance of this situation. But let’s say that you have. Let’s say that you already appreciate that, to quote ‘The Secret’, your thoughts become things – what’s going on in your mind ends up manifesting in reality. Great, you’ve grasped this fundamental concept intellectually – but intellectualizing this concept and being able to get this ‘manifestation’ working for you, rather than against you, is a whole new ballgame.

If you don’t deliberately take action every day to make certain that you’re in the appropriate mental state, then it really doesn’t matter how much you understand the way life works, you’re simply conning yourself into the nice cosy notion that this ‘Law of Attraction’ can change your life for the better.

To really practice the so-called “Law of Attraction” you need to clear your mind. There’s little point in filling your mind with all the things that you want – most people have no idea of what they really want. Here’s an important piece of advice – fill your mind with the only place and time you have – the now. If you do that, you will drag your subconscious away from its obsession with both the past and the negative. You will become incredibly focused – efficient, effective, inspired and inspiring. In a clear state of mind you will attract the very best into your life, enabling you rise to places that normal people couldn’t imagine.

I’ve no idea exactly how many personal development or so-called self help books were sold in the last twelve months – but I do know that self help is the fastest area of growth in the publishing world with millions of books being sold each year. In addition, I know that, if you tune into your evening news, open your newspaper or go browsing the web’s discussion groups and forums, these self help books make little or no difference.

Surveys conclude that we are more anxious, stressed and bewildered than at any other time in modern history – even a world war didn’t give rise to such abject fear as we are seeing in a millennium where we all led ourselves to belief that humankind was finally moving to a new level. In fact, the wartime spirit that galvanized nations throughout the second world war, is nowhere to be seen in a brave new world where obsession with money – whether it’s wanting more of it or fearing that you don’t have enough of it – is the the way most people in the developed world now operate and it’s every man for himself. What the hell is going on – and I use the world ‘hell’ deliberately because it strikes me that everyday life for many is far closer to hell than it is to heaven.

Bestsellers like ‘The Secret’ and ‘The Power of Positive Thinking’ point towards a brighter, better life if you use your mind in the right direction. In contrast, Barbara Ehrenreich in her book, ‘Smile or Die’, claims that positive thinking has destroyed the US and ruined the world.

Having worked in the personal development field for over fourteen years – long before it was fashionable to confide in your friends or colleagues that you were ‘into it’ – I firmly believe that people who read these self help books are not just fooling themselves but are a danger to everyone around them. They read a bit, get a ‘feel-good’ after-glow, perhaps even put some of what they’ve read into practice for a bit and then con themselves into believing that things are either better or, worse, about to get better – the all-too-common general excuse for not doing what you should actually be doing to make things better yourself.

Reading books doesn’t change your life. Action changes your life – real action every day – action that you’ve got to take yourself. And I’ve seen no real evidence of action. Sure, I see plenty of reaction – but everybody reacts, we’re experts at is and it makes our lives worse instead of better.

So, close up your self improvement books and ask yourself this searching question? What action can you take today that would improve your lot if life? Not knowing your life, I’ve no idea whether something major needs to be done or, perhaps, it’s just something little. But I do know this – I am regularly questioning myself, challenging myself to ensure that I keep taking the little and large actions that need to be done to push – yes, you’ve got to push yourself – my life towards more success and more happiness. And I regularly see the results.

Most people want more out of life. This is not to say that you’re unhappy with what you’ve got. In fact, the secret to happiness is wanting what you have. But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be constantly striving to scale the highest peaks of success and happiness because you can never stand still in life.

And, then, of course, there are people who are completely unhappy with their situation – the majority of people claim to be unhappy in the work that they do, a frightening number of people worry about their finances and then there are others who are simply and often deeply unhappy with themselves as persons.

However, you’ll get precious little out of life by wishing or by being dissatisfied with what you think you currently have or have not. The one thing that is stopping you getting something different out of life is the blindingly obvious fact that you continue doing everything the same. Keep doing the same things and nothing’s ever going to change. If you want change in your life, you’re going to have to do actually change your life!

But what? Like all great journeys, changing your life starts with the first step. A tiny step will suffice because what you’ve got to do is recondition your mind – to get yourself used to the idea that, in all that you do in life, you have a choice to do something new, something different. One of the most powerful exercises that I suggest to my personal development clients is that they use the very routine that has them stuck in their rut to dismantle the habitual, repetitive patterns of behaviour that have so constrained them, their view of life and the endless possibilities that life holds for them.

I suggest the same powerful mechanism to you. Break routine by using your routine. Each morning, you will find yourself with a load of minor habitual tasks that you’ve been doing in a routine way all of your adult life. If you were to brush your teeth with the hand that you don’t normally use, you will have reached two, potentially life-changing, milestones. Firstly, you will have awoken yourself to the fact that, in every single thing that you do in your life, you have a choice. This awareness will enable you break every single destructive habit that is holding you back from the life that you really want. Secondly, by virtue of the fact that you will be brushing your teeth differently, you’ll have to pay more attention to the task. Highly successful people call this ‘focus’. Focus means paying attention – not to what you want out of life, but to what you’re doing right now.

Your life is lived in moments – each moment that you pay attention develops your ability to be fully focused, fully aware of what must done when life’s big decisions call for real action – not the habitual reaction of the normal doomed-to-failure mind.

Wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, you’re surrounded by people who haven’t a clue that their subconscious mind is creating their reality as we speak. These so-called normal people have no idea that their subconscious mind controls them and, by virtue of the fact that they don’t control their own mind, that they are actually crazy.

However, you, having delved into the study of personal development (if you hadn’t you wouldn’t be reading this!), have some inkling that your thoughts create your life. Many books have been written on it, numerous self help websites explain that you can, indeed, greatly influence your own life experience. And perhaps you already have achieved some results to show for your endeavours.

However, with knowledge comes responsibility. If you do know that your mind creates your own life, that your subconscious mind can be controlled by you and that your resultant behaviour, actions, interactions and, therefore your life, can be directed by you – you have a weighty responsibility to yourself that you must live up to moment to moment. Because, just as numerous books have been written on personal development, much has also been written on just how badly things can go wrong for those of us who know how the game of life is played and choose, either by act or omission, not to play according to life’s rules.

Complacency is a far more subtle enemy than worry, stress or fear. It gives us a false sense of security that permits our mind do what it does habitually – slide back into its normal state of autopilot that allows our programmed subconscious mind start to destroy the benefits that we may well have gained from being more focused, more mindful, more present.

For the vast majority of people in this world – normal people – it is too great a challenge to awaken from the deadly hypnosis that our programmed subconscious mind has us under. Indeed, for the vast majority of normal people, they will die having never known that this challenge was even there to be attempted. For those of us who do take on this challenge and succeed, the real challenge is not to awaken but to stay awake, stay alert, stay tuned in, stay focused on a moment to moment basis. We never know when life will throw a spanner in the works – one that will set us off down another sidetrack of self-destruction, so we’ve got to do everything in our power to do what little it takes every day to ensure that our minds are focused and that we are as fully present to the best of our ability to the only place and time where life is be lived – the now.

Got the guts to be different? Are you up to the challenge of standing out from the crowd, to stand apart from your sad little herd? Do you have what it takes to stand head-and-shoulders above all the sad, pathetic people that you hang out with? Normal people are sad and pathetic – and most of us are normal. Psychology and years of work in the field of personal development prove that the normal mind is out of control, it takes its instructions based on the events of our childhood years rather than actually taking real action – the only kind of action that will achieve real results.

The only problem is that most of us are scared to be different. I’ve met many people over the years who’ve explained to me that they couldn’t be a success because they’d be afraid of losing their friends! By the same token, I know quite a few people who, years later, feel liberated because they no longer hang out with some of their old acquaintances! It seems that normal people hang out with other normal people so that they can all feel miserable together – normal people like having their own little victim support groups!

Herd behaviour is bizarre and you’ll never change your life until you leave the herd. Herd behaviour is seriously dangerous to both you and all your fellow herd members. Once the herd agrees – albeit subconsciously or by omission – that some bizarre behaviour is alright, anything goes. Some years ago this was proved in frightening circumstances by what has subsequently become Philip Zimbardo’s infamous Stanford prison experiment – so-called because the experiment took place at Stanford University and involved student volunteers from Stanford. The volunteers were randomly split into two groups – one group would be the prisoners, the other group the prison guards. And, although the experiment was scheduled to continue for two weeks, it was stopped after six days – the prison guards had become obscenely violent, the prisoners totally submissive. The outrageous behaviour of the former group, through, was OK – everyone in that little herd subscribed to it so none of the guards was behaving, in in their warped world, in an unacceptable way.

All normal people behave inappropriately – because they never behave from a clear and focused state of mind that is present to the here and now. Normal behaviour is dictated by the subconscious mind and the behaviour of other normal people. Normal behaviour cannot be appropriate because it it isn’t dictated by the reality of the present moment.

In other words, although Zimbardo’s Experiment is an extreme illustration of normal behaviour (it is one of quite a number of such experiments that all come to the same conclusion), it does point out just how dangerous it is to run with the herd. However, on a more basic level – and one that is affecting your ability to achieve happiness and the kind of success you want – this herd mentality of normal people is stopping you from doing what your heart desires.

So forget about the herd – once your back is turned many of them will forget about you – and start putting your own quality of life first. Step out of the norms of herd-like behaviour – you will be amazed at how liberating it really is.

A long-time friend recently recommended one of his favourite self-help books to me – it was the most recent in a long list of recommended reading. In talking with him, I enquired as to how he was finding putting into practice what he was learning from all his reading. It emerged from our conversation that, in fact, he was a life-long student of living life to the full but was unlikely to ever actually take the plunge. He told me that a friend of his had suggested to him that he “stop reading the bloody books and starting doing it!”

Bookshop shelves groan with personal development books. This is big business – apparently the fastest growing area of the publishing market. Also, personal development websites proliferate – offering all manner of inducements to buy their package which is guaranteed to change your life in five minutes!

But none of these books or programs will change your life. They could well point you in the right direction, give you an understanding that was missing your range of experience or knowledge or provide you with practical suggestions on how to get more out of life, change your life, transform yourself or whatever. no doubt about it, there is some very good information out there – and some innovative and practical personal development online help – but none of it is going to be of any use to you until you put it into practice for yourself and keep putting it into practice.

It’s up to you to change your life. Only you can take control of that awesome inner potential that is simply waiting for you to muster up the courage or energy to unleash it. The intriguing fact is that much of the advice provided by books and websites demands precious little work of you, requires that you only make very minor adjustments to the way in which you manage your mind. Sadly, however, having been in this business for nearly fifteen years, I have seen far too many people who will not take five minutes every day to make the other twenty three hours and fifty five minutes so much better.

And this leads me to the main point – one that I’ve already alluded to – you have to keep practicing what you learn. No book, program or package will change your life in five minutes. You won’t change your life in five minutes. But five minutes each and every day is an entirely different matter – if you make or take the time to ensure that your mind is up to speed every morning then your life is going to change beyond all recognition. Psychology confirms in no uncertain terms that normal people perceive only what they expect to perceive and experience only what they expect to experience – that the normal life is dictated by the sadly closed normal mind. Open your mind each morning, change your expectations and your life will change. But, at the end of the day, it’s entirely up to you – no one else is going to do it for you.

People get frustrated from time to time. People’s behaviour drives us mad, we get frustrated by our own inaction, we get annoyed by things that we can’t control – like the weather or volcanic ash! But how about those of us who are trying to do our best to live a better life, or even change our lives, who get frustrated when nothing seems to be happening, we don’t seem to be making any progress?

Did you know that the one sure way of holding yourself back is wondering why you’re not going forward! Frustration is a waste of our precious attention and energy. Wondering why what we want to happen hasn’t happened yet is a useless, negative, self-defeating thought – you might as well say to yourself “well, I sort of knew that it wasn’t going to happen anyway!”

We have a finite amount of energy at our disposal and your personal development goal should be to marshal that energy and target it, like a laser beam, on getting on with the business of both living now and heading in the direction of whatever it is that you want out of life. Frustration, worry or even wondering about when, how or if something will happen is a dangerous distraction, a self-destructive use of your energy – it’s like you’re shining your powerful laser beam back on yourself! You have to be so careful where you point that laser beam because it can be equally constructive or destructive.

However, if you’re normal, your laser beam isn’t turned on at all. Psychology confirms that the normal person pays precious little attention to anything and invests a pathetic one percent of their energy in doing what they’re supposed to be doing. If you aren’t doing what you’re supposed to be doing now, when are you going to start? The only place and time that you are is now – the only time and place that you can focus your attention is now. Wishful thinking, daydreaming, wanting or needing are a complete waste of your energy because these distractions are irrelevant to the scientific reality that everything exists only now.

Therefore, if you’re frustrated that you don’t seem to be making progress, it’s your own frustration itself that’s holding you back. If you feel that you’re stuck in a rut, it’s that very feeling that has you stuck there. You’ve got to direct your attention to the urgency of living in the present moment. Now is the time and place that demands your attention – not some of it, like the average person, but as much of it as you can manage. The very input of an abnormal amount of energy into the here and now will trigger an abnormal response from universal energy. This is how highly successful people are so successful – they put their energy into the present and, as a result, they have presence. This must be your goal as well.

Even though many of my clients are business leaders, because of my Personal Development work with aspiring young sports people I get to spend quite a bit of time with people who have not yet become so inward looking that they miss out on the joys of living. The facts as seen from a psychological perspective are plain, simple and incontrovertible. Up to the age of puberty, the mind functions in a manner that is clear and focused – the young brain is subjected to far lower levels of electrical-impulse-induced vibration as the neural pathways are in the process of construction. Through adolescence, as those neural pathways are completed, electrical activity in the brain speeds up. By our early twenties, with the brain firing on all cylinders, we become hostage to our “stored knowledge” that we largely learned during our childhood. Our perceptions of reality are created by our stored knowledge and our consequent reactions dictated by the resultant misconceptions.

Despite the fact that we were at our most mentally efficient when we were children, our entire childhood was pointed towards becoming an adult. Our education systems are designed to ensure conformity to the norms of mindless adulthood. Society at large expects people to better themselves, get a good education and then a good job. Children constantly fantasize about what they will be “when I grow up”. And many of the youths with whom I have worked closely, being torn apart, as all adolescents are, by the utter transformation of the brain, suppose that, when they do eventually grow up, all will return to an even keel – all will be well again as it was when they were children. It’s an awful thing to have to tell them otherwise. As one young guy said to me a while back “Some of my friends are behaving really badly at the moment – but, I assume, that, when they grow up, they’ll start behaving properly again!”

What evidence have you got for adults behaving properly? There is little or no such evidence because no such proper behaviour is to be seen. As we’ve already said, the scientific evidence is plain – and when it comes to stating the facts on the normal adult state of mind, frightening. The normal adult is dead from the neck up. We went through our childhood and adolescence getting reading to participate in life’s great race – well, we should have been told “on your marks, get set, die”! Because our adult minds make “sense” of today based on our stored knowledge, we’re not really alive here and now.

To truly live now, to see life and all its possibilities for what they are, to be happy and carefree, you and I have to become like a little child again. We must slow our minds down, take time to calm the mental activity, to tune out the noise in our heads. Until we do, we will achieve nothing of any value – least of all peace of mind.

Could be that your life isn’t the as great as you want it to be, perhaps or if you’re unhappy with yourself – what you believe is going on has nothing to do with reality! Decades of research prove that the normal subconscious mind quite literally makes up your reality for you – far removed from the real thing, just a mish-mash of crap (what some people call baggage) mainly from our formative years.

So, if you really want to live the life that you really and truly want to live, if you want to really explode your own Personal Development, you’ll have to stop paying attention to the garbage in your head that’s turning reality into some kind of sick joke – you’re going to have to start paying attention to real reality. You’re going to have to come to your senses – and I mean that literally.

Your body’s five senses are your only contact with the “outside” world. Every sound you hear – whether it’s a rushing stream, birds singing, something complimentary being said to you, or bad news – is first registered by your ear, transmitted to your brain, interpreted in conjunction with what psychologists call “stored knowledge” (the baggage we discussed a moment ago) and, as a result, made sense of! Same goes for all of your other senses.

The fact is, however, that so-called normal people simply don’t make sense of what they’ve perceived – they make nonsense of it! Because, rather than paying attention to their senses, they let their stored knowledge make up their minds for them. And for most of us, that stored knowledge is way out of date – and the older you get the more out of date and irrelevant to the present moment it will become.

Research has discovered that as a normal adult, you are simply not able to focus your mind, you have no idea how to pay enough attention to what your body is telling you – and, yet, here is where we find real “here and now” information. Instead, an adult lifetime of automatic behaviour numbs our sensory perception resulting in a half-life of mindless living. In other words, normal people are, at best, sleepwalking their way through life, at worst, as good as dead.

In my work, I find that most people are completely unable to pay attention for even five minutes – sometimes when I’ve asked a group to simply sit still for five minutes, the mere suggestion of staying put in the one place resulted in some people almost hitting the ceiling such was their inability to simply appreciate the moment. You need to sit still for a few minutes each day – let it be an exercise in fine-tuning your mind to pay attention to just what you see, feel, here, smell and taste. Avoid the normal temptation to analyse what’s going on, don’t make up your mind based on your so-called stored knowledge. Simply notice – because it is in really see what’s truly going on that the next idea that will change your life will become apparent.

So many people struggle with things that they can do nothing about. Most people get upset or annoyed about things over which they have no control. And few take control of the one thing in life over which you can exercise absolute and total control – if you did, it would change your life. Like puppets, we allow our mood to be jerked up or down according to life’s ups and downs.

However, the downs – or even just the “not-too-bads” – that happen are what they are. Such things are sent to try us and most of us are found wanting. Like everything else in life – in fact, like everything else in the universe – all the trying times, events or people that we come across in our lives will pass. Everything arises and passes away. And, if we do meet with circumstances that are not to our liking then, on the basis that they will pass, we simply need to knuckle down and simply get on with it. It is what it is!

But there are things that we can do about situations that are continuously intolerable – if your job is truly awful to the point that no amount of mental clarity will enable you focus on just doing the damn thing, then you need to move on and, if you do, like everything else in life, it will have passed. If you don’t then the results are a consequence of your own inactions. If you find yourself in an abusive relationship to the point that no amount of tolerance or resilience will see you through, move on. Again, if you don’t, your problems are now partly of your own making. If you do, for your own sake, don’t repeat the same mistakes – something that often happens – people jump from the frying pan into the fire.

But beyond ongoing chronic pain, the vast majority of life’s downs are no more than a stone in our shoe in the greater scheme of things – they will pass. In addition, the vast majority of those minor irritations are neither of our own making nor can we control them. On the other hand, if some of them are of your own making – through act or omission – then aren’t you a prize idiot!

But what about the one thing in life that you can control? Well, everyone, no matter how bad things get, can choose their state of mind. After all – by act, or more normally, omission – we’ve already chosen our state of mind. Most of us, not knowing that we can choose, will allow our state of mind to be as changeable as Irish weather – all four seasons can show up in one day! We allow ourselves be tugged upwards when good things happen, dragged downwards when things aren’t going our way. If you fall into this category, again, more fool you. Take control of your state of mind. Choose to focus your mind, to be calm, focused and present. Make up your own mind to pay attention to the reality of the here and now for, in this reality, it will become blindingly obvious that everything arises and passes away.

I’m forever ranting on about how so-called “normal” people are mad and that it is up to each one of us to “stop the madness”. Having recently spent a couple of days chatting with a number of long-standing personal development clients about how quantum physics elegantly describes how our universe, our world and our little bit of it – our daily life – really works. What we put in – in energy – we get back out. If, like the normal person, you put almost nothing in (bear in mind that research estimates that the normal person only puts 1% of their mental energy into the here and now), you shouldn’t be surprised if you, as a normal person, get precious little in return.

Energy is only present – so, thinking of the future or worrying about the past has no effect on energy. The universe only is now. And you can only invest your mental energy in the here and now, if you focus your mind or take control of your present state of mind. And you can only take control of your present state of mind if you’re up to taking responsibility for yourself. And, for some, that’s a bridge too far. It is obvious to me that normal people are not up to the task.

All you have to do is listen to the politicians hold forth on the ongoing need to “rescue” the economy from the crisis that has befallen it. What they’re saying is “Hey, it’s not our fault, it’s the fault of an unprecedented ‘fracture in the international financial system’” – that’s real quote, by the way – as if the financial system had a mind and will of its own! And, then, spare a thought for the poor bankers, who won’t own up to their part in all this mess either. A few (only a few) bankers have actually apologised for the mess – though they’re not sufficiently sorry to return their large salaries, bonuses, pension top-ups or golden handshakes. But almost all the bankers that I’ve heard have blamed the catastrophe that has befallen their noble institutions… on the credit crunch.

Quick question: Is the “fracture in the financial system” some self-created beast in which no one had a hand, act or part? Is the “credit crunch” some monster from the deep with a mind of its own that reared its ugly head to consume all right-thinking bankers (and everyone else with them)? Is no one to blame? Will nobody take responsibility? We expect our children to own up to breaking a glass or having one too many beers – but these so-called adults don’t really lead by example, do they?

What about you? Are your problems someone else’s fault? True enough, crap happens – often we can’t control it – but we can control how we react or, more to the point, act when stuff happens. Time to grow up. Time to be responsible for yourself – for your mind. If you don’t universal energy will give you precious little in return (I’ve edited what I was going to say in case no one would publish this post!) well, pretty much nothing, for your “efforts” – and it will be good enough for you. What goes around, comes around – it’s the Law of Attraction, it’s how our energetic universe works.